Most girls have experienced it, but it's not something we talk about much. When we chat about the guys we like, nerdy guys rarely come up. But when we think about the type of men who turn us on, it's a completely different story.
Geeky guys are hot, there's no doubt about it. Their cute glasses, goofy outfits, offbeat sense of humor and their awkwardness are all endearing, not turn-offs. Especially when you realize that underneath the hopeless, shy exterior, every geek is a sexual beast just waiting to be unleashed. But if you need any more persuading, here's why you should join the world of geek dating, and ditch those muscle-bound meatheads for good.
Sometimes, when you date "ordinary" guys with a healthy sex life, physical intimacy can seem like part of their routine. When they meet you and start sleeping with you, it's nothing new for them. It's what they expected, and it's just another fuck. But with nerdy guys, that's never the case. You see, nerds aren't highly sexed (which doesn't mean they aren't good at it). Instead, they really appreciate when hot girls let them join them in bed. They will treat you like the goddess you deserve to be, not just another notch on their bedposts.
Similarly, nerds are always up for the kind of activities you want to engage in. You can set the agenda, teaching them how you want them to behave, what sexual role you want them to take, and the techniques required to bring you to orgasm every single time. Nerds are great learners (hey, it's what go them their post at Google, right?) and this extends to the bedroom. So give them some complex sexual equations to solve, and they'll get there. Often, you'll find that their intelligence finds a route to your G-spot that less complex guys could never discover.
Nerdy guys aren't just sexually pliable and keen to please. They also tend to be among society's gentler, more sensitive types.
If you are tired of being brushed aside when you suggest a museum visit, or your man spends all day drinking with friends or playing on his PlayStation, you'll be delighted by the sensitive, attentive nature of most nerdy guys. Sure, they will get distracted by coding and gaming every now and then, but when they help your niece build a killer science fair project, you'll realize that their unique personalities are some of the warmest around.
Although nerdy guys have their issues with meeting large groups of women, when they get in one-on-one situations with your family or friends, you'll discover that they can maintain a conversation with the best of them. And, what's more, geeky men can actually listen to their people they are talking with, respond in full sentences, and talk about something other than their salary or golf handicap. If you want a boyfriend who can wow your friends with a little intellectual chat, geeky guys are the way to go.
One of the most common relationship killers is when guys get complacent or lazy, losing focus on their partner and taking them for granted. We've all been there, and it's frustrating to see otherwise great partners drifting away into the distance as work, leisure or their own selfish fantasies come into play. But with geeky guys, you don't have to worry so much.
They will always be desperate to please the goddess who has come into their life, and they will apply their laser like mental focus to keeping you happy in the same way they would for a complex coding project.
Hands up how many girls have dated dumb but hot guys who thought they had the best sense of humor in the world, but just ended up making brainless fart jokes all the time? If you've never clicked with ordinary partners in the humor department, give nerdy guys a try. Their wordplay and science gags aren't to everybody's taste, but if the success of the Big Bang Theory tells us anything, it's that nerd humor is flat-out hilarious, and can make almost anyone laugh. So why not snag your own personal Sheldon? It's not hard, thanks to online dating.
Most guys think that to look sexy all they need is a sleek suit, sharp shoes and an expensive watch that they can flash to the girls they meet. Well, that's far from the only way to dress well, and for many girls it's a massive turn-off.
Geeks, on the other hand, have a modest sense of style that perfectly fits their personalities. With their practical glasses, corduroy, colorful shirts and tatty jackets, geeky guys have a friendly, humble look that they manage to pull off. The humble exterior is actually a real turn-on, when you know that the outfit conceals a ravenous sexual animal underneath.
Girls are deeper and more complicated than many guys might think. At the same time, many guys feel threatened when their girlfriend starts a new hobby or outshines them in conversation, and they find subtle ways to shut it down. That's not the case with nerdy guys. They love to share their obsessions with girls, and will be only too happy if you start experimenting with linux builds or model trains. Whatever your hidden hobbies or desires, nerdy guys will help you nurture it, and will never try to suppress your interests.
Nerds are also handy to have around on a more practical level. Sure, they might not be wizards in the toolshed, but that's an old fashioned place to show off your skills. Nowadays, everything is online, and guys who can fix your Windows OS, manage your apps or set up your smart speakers will be much more useful than someone with a perfect lathe technique.
Don't be worried about turning up at the bar with a nerdy guy on your arm. Society is changing, and the nerd look is hot right now. As this article has shown, geeky guys can be the perfect partners, so search online and find a nerdy guy with brains, sensitivity and an endless desire to please.