A nasty bdsm sex chat means I can get the kind of sex I crave whenever I crave it. I'm 27 years old, Gisborne girl and I've been into the bdsm lifestyle (or just "The Lifestyle" as many of us call it) for a couple of years now.
I spent a few crazy years at uni partying and hooking up and I remember a couple of hook-ups in particular with hot guys who wanted to spank me. One wanted to pull me over his knee and smack my bottom until it was red and stung before rooting me hard – the other fave would start smacking while we did the deed. He also liked to call me up during the afternoon to start telling me what he was going to do to me that night. I got hugely turned on and it also led to a lot of fantasies where I was the one doing the spanking. But, hook-ups are hook-ups and not meant to go anywhere, so I couldn't really explore that part of me except by chance.
My kinky lifestyle didn't really start until I was near the end of my last semester and I happened to meet Dana and Andrew while I was working at a café. They were regulars and seemed so friendly. both of them were incredibly sexy and I was so attracted to the way Dana dressed in black PVC and leather. I was so excited when they invited me over to their house one day and from that night my sex life went to a whole different level. Through them, I discovered that I like boys and girls, and that I'm a "switch". That means I am sometimes a Domme (dominatrix) and sometimes a Sub (submissive). I guess you could say I have a dual spirit when it comes to sex. After I finished uni I had to move away to get work and I lost touch with Dana, Andrew and their house stocked full of spanking benches, whips, chains, shackles, ropes and all that good stuff I had been trained on.
The one issue about The Lifestyle is that you have to have space and willing partners in the right roles. It's not always so easy to find in person in real life! My new job meant a lot of traveling and while casual hook-ups were always available on the road, I started to worry that my kinky fantasies would just never come true. Finally I stumbled into a lover who was an experienced Dom – and who just happened to be working with the same client I was that day. We looked at each other across a round table discussion and I knew we connected immediately. My name and contact info was on the documentation and I couldn't believe it - he started texting me sexy messages during the meeting! I ended up with sore, purple backside the next day and a big smile on my face. He was on his way the next day, as was I, and I thought that would be the end of my adventures yet again but before he left he hooked me up with an online site where I could post a profile and get into a bdsm sex chat anytime I wanted to.
After I set up my profile online and posted an ad, I'll never forget how quickly I started to get replies. There were so many that I could pick the best one to start with. The subject line of his first message was, "Are you a naughty girl?" We set up a sex chat online and of course the first thing I said was, "I've been such a bad girl!" "Is that right darl?" he answered. "Tell me how bad." "I fucked around on my boyfriend." "Well that needs a spanking then doesn't it? Pull down those panties and get here over my knee." I was moaning and all wet already. "Yessir!" "And I'll run my hands over your lovely ass cheeks first darl, do you like that?" "Yessir..." and I moaned again as I started rubbing my clit. "I'm in control of you now as you lay here passive and, submissive," he said, "and then when you're relaxed, down comes that first very hard smack!" I could feel it, I swear. I know I was getting hot and I was dripping wet now. "And another smack! Do you like that? Do you like it when I'm in charge?" "Oh yes master," I moaned. "I want you to punish me." When I'm in a submissive mood, I love to let go and give myself up to a Dom and that's just what this guy was giving me online. I came in about five minutes flat - just before he did! Let's just say that was only the first of many, many bdsm sex chats since then. On the road or at home, I've been spanked and then turned the tables to flog my chat lover till he begged for mercy... and then groaned as he came. These days, I can't get enough!